An Early Lesson
AN EARLY LESSON The dark was big and cold, so my father laid the ground to build a fire pit, spread gravel down to carve a space in the yard about the size of a living room, a life. In older cousins’ coats we’d sit in plastic chairs, clink pebbles off the grate while he split logs he picked up from the curb of a neighbor’s house. We were wealthy in woodsmoke, sweet tooth-squeak of an uncooked marshmallow, talk of church beneath the temple of the oak tree. He’d get up periodically, knees popping to preach to us—not saying anything— how it's nothing less than breath to keep a flame going.